Ella just keeps getting cuter and cuter these days. She is progressing so well. We are seeing new things every day. There seems to have been a real jump in Michella's relationship with her Daddy. He has recently almost taken over the book-reading portion of our night-time routine and is the one to go get her and bring her to our room when she wakes up in the morning. She is letting him do this without protesting, as long as she gets to come see mommy right way, which I love because then we get to cuddle for a bit while we're waking up. This is HUGE!
Her angry "No!" is lessening and her strong rejection of Andrey at strange times is also lessening. After understandably resisting for sometime, it seems she is beginning to let herself relax and trust him. A big part of this is due to Andrey's kind, fun and devoted attention to her as often and as much as possible. When he is home in the evenings after work, they are playing. On the weekends, they get hours and hours of play time together. My absolute favorite thing these days is hearing the sound of her belly laughter when they play together. And seeing her courageously trust this goofy, tenderhearted father of hers, brings tears of joy to my eyes. She is so brave and courageous. We just keep falling deeper and deeper in love with our girl. I'm so, so happy that Andrey is finally getting to love her in a hands-on way and no longer from afar.
In other news, we were in Manila last week for Michella's visa medical and interview. Sadly, we weren't able to complete her medical due to the fact that she received a vaccination the week prior, which apparently interferes with the TB skin test result. It's too bad we didn't know that ahead of time. Thankfully, they allowed us to go ahead with the visa interview portion at the US Embassy. We were told Ella has a visa as soon as the medical is complete. Yay! We'll be back in Manila later this month to complete the medical. We are certain all will be well and so we just booked flights to the US from March 28 to May 28. How exciting to get to finalize this process soon and make it official.... not that we need a piece of paper to tell us she's our daughter but it is a wonderful feeling to know she will soon be a legitimate Sawchenko!
Here are all our good photos from the past few weeks...
Ella and her #3 favorite (Daddy was recently upgraded to #2). Based on how long Gerald lets Ella lay on him and how gentle he is with her, it is clear that Gerald loves her, too.
Mimi is here!! My mom is visiting for 3+ weeks. It's so great to have her around watching her enjoy her newest granddaughter. We are having a great time. Ella has four grandparents who love her so much. We are thankful for this. My Dad wasn't able to join for this trip but that's okay, we'll be in Alabama next month.
Cheers, Mimi!
Just chillin'
Look! A rainbow!
Mimi came bearing more gifts. Look at my cool, new phone!
What does Ella like more than building blocks? Knocking them down and saying, "Wooaah!!!!"
Daddy taught her that.
Taking kitties for a walk
Morning cuddle with mommy and beloved kitties
This girl loves accessories
"Helping" mommy bake bread
Fun play hats from Mimi
Tea party!
Valentine's dinner. Huge thanks to my Mom for cooking us a delicious beef stew with potatoes, lemon Parmesan French green beans, and homemade bread. Add a bottle of wine, chocolate cake with whipped cream and local strawberries and you have a feast. Since it's too soon to go out without Ella, Mom made us this special meal and then gave us the evening to ourselves. What a treat!
4 comments:
I'm here in Cebu with the "JAM" fam (Jen, Andrey and Michella) and I've been checking to see updates of the blog!!! Yeah!! This is a great one. Michella is a joy... bringing much laughter. I am so grateful to our loving God for blessing Jen and Andrey with this precious little girl. God is good!!
I've always felt that adopted toddlers are the bravest, most courageous people on earth, to keep going, to keep trusting, to keep loving, despite their total upheavals. I'd never do so well with so much change.
She's so sweet. I LOVE watching this journey, I love the photos, and I especially love watching her cuddle you guys and get covered in bread baking flour. It's awesome to see you fall into motherhood and love its most beautiful bits. It's the toughest job, and it's the most rewarding one. xoxo
And yay for MIMIs!
This post just glows with LOVE! The photo of you cuddling Ella in the morning made my heart ache in response to the depth of emotion. Bless your nerdy family, you are a beautiful bunch, and thoroughly awesome.
What a precious little girl! I love watching the video of her with Daddy. So glad she is enjoying her daddy more and more! I can't believe Gerald lets her lay on him. What a sweet kitty. Have fun with Mimi yet!!
Blessings!
Deborah
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